This is a post that might make some people uncomfortable, I will be talking about sex. By sex I mean my sex life with my husband pre-baby and post baby. With everything out there so to speak. So if these previous sentences have made you uncomfortable stop reading now (Aunt Doll this means you, not that I care if you read on)In the beginning it was like all new things you just can’t get enough even through the rough patches in the beginning. Lets just say my husband had the patience of a saint when it came to wooing me. Then we moved in together a year later and things were still hot and heavy, but once a bout six months had passed of living together (which coincided with his college graduation, a large move, and him starting his career) the sex began to dwindle. I mean not to the point of I am going blind here but a decrease none the less. Then we became comfortable in a routine of jobs, trying to have a social life, and all the little things that life throws at you, that sex got put on the back burner almost to the point of I am going blind here. Then we moved again when our lease was up and Casey changed companies and things began to improve. When he got laid off four months later (what a coincidence when Ian was conceived) things really picked up (I don’t know how they did though I was working 2 jobs and a full time student at the time). Then my husband with his saint like patience again got basically shunned like a leaper I can count on one hand the number of times we had sex while I was pregnant. Then after the mandatory recovery period things began to heat up again. Then Casey got laid off yet again, we had a new baby and going back to work being a sane woman and what happened the last time he got laid off I hid from husband (joking kind of). Then he got a job 2 months later, I started staying at home and Ian started sleeping through the night (most of the time) so things started to pick back up. Well last night Casey and I were conversing about our sex life and he made the comment how come we don’t have sex more often ( I had been having the same thought). That is when we decide that for the next 30 days we are going to have sex everyday. So now away we go, we can and will succeed.
*Prior to this agreement we have been avg. once a week.